What is the complexes?
The complex is the negative emotion hidden in subconsciousness it come from the childhood, supported with a context of vital events (awkwardly thrown phrase or the remark) which can define behaviour and attitude of the person all life.
Vivid example — experiences of girls-teenagers concerning own reflexion in a mirror: for them vital to be harmonous, beautiful and to correspond to the standard ideals (in that, how much these ideals are erroneous, we will be convinced hardly later). Any impartial statements to a figure and appeal of the girl can become fatal for a self-estimation of the woman in the future. It is interesting, that some parents meaningly inspire to daughters, that with such external data as at them, hardly it is necessary to count on interest from an opposite sex. The purpose of adults — to direct thoughts of the child to a correct channel, namely — for study, a prestigious trade and, as consequence, a successful life. The result turns out opposite — an inferiority complex and feeling of a dissatisfaction.
The core of any complex is a fear. We are afraid to mismatch opinion of the significant person for us and extraneous people, we are afraid to remain in loneliness, eventually, we are afraid to die. The fear is one of the basic base emotions of the person. It is necessary for a survival: without it we even would not pass street without risk to be run over by a car. However the fear can not only help, but also destroy — it holds down our feelings, prevents to prove, influences nazdorove and development. In this case he plays a brake role. At physiological level the fear causes diaphragm compression, hence, in an organism arrives less oxygen, develops gipoksija. After this the sensation of chronic weariness, irritability and the whole bouquet of psychosomatic illnesses comes: a migraine, a bronchial asthma, psoriaz, a hypertension and vegetososudistaja a dystonia. The fear oppresses sexual sphere, therefore there are problems and in an intimate life.