What most widespread female complex?
In psychology there is no classification of complexes by a tender principle. But, certainly, main component practically all psychological problems (and female and man's) — an inferiority complex. Certainly, there are situations when we feel ourselves far from perfect, and it is quite normal.
The inferiority complex is a constant discontent with self and a dissatisfaction with a life. The basic postulate of the diffident lady: «I am unworthy the best because I mismatch social norms and standards because not such clever as …, not such young as … not such harmonous as … and not such lucky as …» Origin of negative installations to a bowl of all is promoted by parents. Phrases like: «At you it will turn out nothing», «Such as you, will achieve nothing in a life», «Study, and that court yard you will sweep» — operate on children as hypnosis. To convince itself of the return, even having matured, oh as it is difficult.
One more moment promoting development of uncertainty in, — education in excessive severity. It is possible to impart to the child feeling of discontent with itself, having been overzealous in inculcation elementary (at a sight of adults) behaviour rules in a society: «do not touch! Do not run! A toy give! Delivery do not give!». So the underestimated self-estimation to some extent — a fruit of "good" education.